When I was in my early twenties, I was very cocky & I thought I knew everything.
In reality, I knew very little.
You see, back then my self-esteem was so low that I lived my life trying to prove that I was OK.
I worked tirelessly to “get” the world to show me I was worthy of being alive.
- Fortunately today I have nothing to prove.
- People either like me or they don’t.
- And either way, all is well.
25 years ago I heard 4 simple words that changed my life. Those words are:
“If not now, when?”
You see I was at a point of being totally demoralized, obese, in pain and just embarrassed to be living in my body.
I was ashamed of my size and my being. So when someone told me that I had a choice to change or stay the same, I finally got it.
I was ready.
If not now, when?
What was I waiting for?
An early death?
A painful tortured existence even worse than it already was?
Fortunately, I was able to dig deep and decided:
· I was done hating myself.
· Done making others wrong.
· Done feeling like an outcast.
· Done with feeling hopeless.
· Done with torturing myself and my body.
· Done with overeating.
· Done with drinking myself to sickness.
· Done using every excuse as to why I cannot get help or are worthy of help.
· And…finally, I was done using TIME AND MONEY as my biggest excuses.
One of my friends and mentors, Bill Barren recently sent this to me in regards to discounting prices and I wanted to share his words which touched me deeply.
I began to see that the ‘discount mindset’ is one of
scarcity, fear and contraction. It discounts the value you
place on things. And it discounts the talents of the people
and products you are investing into.
When you believe in the value of what you are getting, it is
your belief that sets in motion your access to that value.
So when someone asked me for a discount, I tell them that I
believe in the service I provide. I believe in the results
they will get from working with me. And I invite them to
invest in themselves in a way that honors them and honors
So while I am totally sympathetic to circumstances where people do not have the resources to pay for my services, I feel I am doing a disservice to myself and to my clients to make things “cheap” to get people in the door. That is not to say that I will not offer promotions, however, I know in my heart that I am worth your investment and so are you.
What kind of price can you put on a healed mind and a body you love?
I am offering a complimentary 30 minute consultation – on How to Release Weight and Gain a New Improved Life to all brave enough to say, I AM DONE with how things are right now. Just like the brave women I talk about in my video above.
Take a step. We can discuss all your options. I am not going to talk you into something you do not want. However, I may show you something you never dreamed possible. All you have to do is take one small action. Email me here and say, “I am now ready for the free consult.” And I will send you my calendar with times to choose from.
It is that simple.
Suffering for another year or another decade is not necessary. You can get relief with your body with food and the scale.
What do you want your life to look like a year from now and what are your 4 words that will snap your mind into action?
If you cannot find those 4 words for yourself, feel free to use mine, “if not now when?”Tags: contraction, existence, fear, scarcity