Day 69 – How do you know you have forgiven someone?
Hello Pinky Tribe
Great call tonight!
How do you know you have forgiven someone?
Great question and I want to reiterate what I shared about on the great call tonight.
I define forgiveness as freedom.
Forgiving my past, saved my life. That I know for sure.
Forgiveness is often collapsed with forgetting and one thing has nothing to do with the other.
Forgive does not mean forget, it means FORGIVE…
People ask me this all the time…how do I know if you have really forgiven yourself or another person, place or thing?
A simple answer is when you think about them or the incident, or yourself, revenge, shame, pain, blame and guilt do not show up. Neutrality, balance and inner peace equals freedom and that is forgiveness.
Ask yourself, how has forgiveness served you and how is holding pain or resentment towards another holding you back in your life?
And I invite you to ask that question to yourself about your self forgiveness…
Why can you do it for others and not for yourself?
Good place of inquiry.
Ask the universe for support, ask your pinky power partner for support and know you are being held and loved.
Good work, learning, loving and letting go!
XO, Laura
Laura Fenamore, CPCC is a gifted Body Image Mastery Mentor and a celebrated speaker, lecturer and teacher to thousands of people worldwide. 
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