Great call tonight!

How do you know you have forgiven someone?

Great question and I want to reiterate what I shared about on the great call tonight.

I define forgiveness as freedom.

Forgiving my past, saved my life. That I know for sure.

Forgiveness is often collapsed with forgetting and one thing has nothing to do with the other.

Forgive does not mean forget, it means FORGIVE…

People ask me this all the time…how do I know if you have really  forgiven yourself or another person, place or thing?

A simple answer is  when you think about them or the incident, or yourself,  revenge,  shame, pain, blame and guilt do not show up.  Neutrality, balance and inner peace equals freedom and that is forgiveness.

Ask yourself, how has forgiveness served you and how is holding pain or resentment towards another holding you back in your life?

And I invite you to ask that question to yourself about your self forgiveness…

Why can you do it for others and not for yourself?

Good place of inquiry.

Ask the universe for support, ask your pinky power partner for support and know you are being held and loved.

Good work, learning, loving and letting go!

XO, Laura

Life is full and wonderful.

Today was really busy and I got to speak to women in Wales, Canada, Arizona, New Mexico (India) and Florida…

How cool is it that we now live in a world where are so connected?

I love that. And as much as I am not a technology computer geek, I am grateful everyday for the internet and computer age. It is so excited to be living now.

I wanted to share something that Leanne from Israel created. She is bold and beautiful and in the midst of her own cliff diving. I am so proud of her.

She wrote the following to me yesterday and I wanted to share them on this blog…

“Laura, last night I wrote these out and then made it into positive affirmations (the bold part only as if it is already happening).”

I AM LEANNE!

I am tired of struggling, and want to be free and know peace.
I am tired of carrying the shame (my own and others), and want to embody pride and dignity.
I am tired of being fat and ugly, and want to embrace beauty and health.
I am tired of the pain and sadness, and want to be happy and laugh loudly.
I am tired of my comfort zones, and want to jump freely and openly into the unknown.
I am tired of not belonging, and want to live with my tribe, be an integral part of a community and share my life with others.
I am tired of worrying and expecting the worse, and want to trust and live in hope, joy and abundance.
I am tired of “doing unto and for others”, and want to “do unto me and for me”.
I am tired of being a slave to money, and want to be financially secure.
I am tired of wasting my time and energy, and want to invest my time and energy in service of self and others.
I am tired of being alone, and want to be socially active and belong.
I am tired of being single and childless, and want to be a wife and a mother.
I am tired of standing in my own way, and want to surrender to the flow of the river.
I am tired of the darkness, and want to live in the light and shine brightly.
I am tired of existing, and am ready to live consciously, colorfully and fully.

I AM READY!!!!!
These are my words,
HO!

To all of us who are tired of our excuses, stories, suffering, we say “Peace is who I am” and that is what I am creating inside of me with every breath.

Enjoy your process Leah and I invite you to say bye bye to the “dream stealers” and HELLO to your new and improved life and OnePinky community.

Live, Learn, Let Go and Love to you my dear,

Love, XO
Laura